We celebrate the feast of St. Joseph, a man who showed us how to live with love and courage even in confusing and painful times. Let’s learn from three beautiful qualities he practiced:
1. Mercy Over Revenge
When Joseph learned Mary was pregnant, he must have felt deep hurt, betrayal, and confusion. According to Jewish law, he could have demanded she be punished severely. But instead of hurting Mary back, Joseph chose mercy. He decided to walk away quietly rather than harm her (Matthew 1:19).
Why it matters: When someone hurts us, our first reaction might be anger or revenge. Joseph teaches us to choose kindness, even when it’s hard.
Practical ways to imitate Joseph:
- Pause before reacting: Take time to breathe and pray when you feel upset.
- Pray for those who hurt you: Ask God to bless them instead of holding onto anger.
- Choose kindness: Do one small act of love for someone you’re struggling with.
2. Humility to Change His Mind
Joseph had already decided to end his engagement to Mary. He might have told family or friends about his choice. But when an angel explained Mary’s pregnancy was part of God’s plan, Joseph humbly changed his mind. He didn’t let pride stop him from doing what was right (Matthew 1:24).
Why it matters: Admitting we’re wrong or changing our decisions requires humility. Joseph shows us it’s okay to grow and learn.
Practical ways to imitate Joseph:
- Listen before deciding: Ask others for their perspective, especially if you’re upset.
- Say “I was wrong”: Practice apologizing when you make a mistake.
- Stay open: Be willing to adjust your plans if God’s calling you in a new direction.
3. Trusting God’s Plan
Joseph didn’t understand everything happening in his life, but he trusted God completely. When the angel told him to marry Mary, protect Jesus, and flee to Egypt, Joseph obeyed without hesitation. He let God lead, even when it was scary or uncertain.
Why it matters: Life often feels confusing, but trusting God helps us find peace.
Practical ways to imitate Joseph:
- Pray for guidance: Start each day by asking, “God, what do You want me to do?”
- Follow God’s teachings: Even when it’s hard, choose honesty, forgiveness, and love.
- Let go of fear: When worries overwhelm you, repeat: “God, I trust in You.”
Conclusion
St. Joseph wasn’t a superhero—he was an ordinary man who chose extraordinary love. This feast day, let’s ask him to help us:
- Replace anger with mercy,
- Swap pride for humility,
- Trade fear for trust.
By imitating Joseph, we can bring light and peace to our families and the world.
Happy Feast of St. Joseph! 🌟
Vox Divini 